Interesting email....

[autumnluv143]

I received a rather interesting email today. Apparently someone who has never met me is under the impression from my journal entries (in which I have mentioned very very little about play parties...) and is under the impression that I suffer from frequent cases of bottom drop. If I do give off that impression...er...I'm sorry? No, I don't suffer from bottom drop. The most I can say I get icky about during the week after a party is knowing that I'm stuck where I am until i can make it to another one. This person has gotten all kinds of impressions of me without having ever actually spoken to me. I have much more going on in my life than just play parties or sessions. I don't agree with him that BDSM is inherently sexual. I have rarely mixed sex with BDSM and have been perfectly content that way. I don't even associate the two unless I'm masturbating..but that's more forced submission than anything else. To top off the email I receieved an unsolicited IM from a "Master" on collarme.com who said that most people in the lifestyle are mundane and after having a 10 minute conversation with me mistook my intelligence and realistic attitude about life with bitterness and lack of experience. I truly truly dislike when a person makes assumptions about another's personality without at least taking the time to get to know them a little bit. I realize that most of my entries have been on the bleak/depressed side...but look at how few and far between they are and had I actually talked about what was going on with me in those particular posts, rather than talking about my feelings per event or happening, I can imagine they would be perceived differently. Unfortunately...bad conversations and bad events can show up at anytime..yes..even after a play party (still scanning to see where I mentioned having attented one with the exception of the "I'm horny and my ass hurts" bs. I am more complex than even I am aware of myself. I may have an emotion about certain things at certain times but never do those emotions consume my life or my being. So to this unknown person who emailed me with the mysterious psychological advice in it...unless you have the energy to talk to me for hours trying to chip away at my many levels of personalities....I will continue to "hang in there" as I have been...content with parts of my life and attempting to change what I'm not content with. And as far as my communication with people who understand..that is never an issue, I have a wide circle of very good friends to whom I can confide in at any time and receive the best advice I can get...advice from true friends. Thank you for your concern. You will be the first person I email the next time I feel I am experiencing bottom drop.

Comments

[naughtylass.livejournal.com]

I love it when people tell you how you feel. *chuckles.

Riiiiiiiiiiiight.

[wynterkat.livejournal.com]

Alrighty, been trying to figure out for awhile what to post, and how to post it. I've come to the conclusion that the wank that wrote that e-mail *yes, I'm talking to YOU* doesn't deserve any kind of a response other than - Shut the fuck up and have a nice day. =)
It amazes me how judgemental so many people can be with so little information, and it pisses me off to no end when a person tells another person what is supposedly wrong or right in their life without knowing a damn thing about it.
So yeah.
Hi.
Fuck you and the horse you rode in on, and quit hassling mah bitch.
Much love-
Wynter :P

Re: Riiiiiiiiiiiight.

[autumnluv.livejournal.com]

LOL...thanks hunny.