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Feb. 25th, 2008 12:18 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
autumnluv143This post is being made public for a specific reason.
Apparently you can't ban just one person from reading your LJ unless you go through a whole thing of creating a f-list with them excluded...blah blah blah. I'm not going through all of that crap....yet. I've actually been sitting on this post for over a week. I couldn't decide if I wanted to make it or not. So here is what I have to say...
Even if I make my LJ entries public, they are still all about me and my business and aren't anyone else's. Just because you "can" read them and not be on my f-list doesn't mean you should be and even if you are, most definitely should NOT be repeating them. And if this doesn't drive the point home even better, you should never read someone's journal and then announce in the middle of a public place around people who don't currently know my business what you've derived from what I've written.
Do we understand? If there has been more hostility than usual blowing your way lately it was because of that. You mentioned it, I blew you off and ignored it thinking you would get the hint. So then you got louder and mentioned it again. You only apologized much much later in the night when I actually pulled you off to the side and said not to mention it again.
I don't want to have to shut down and close security around my LJ. I've been running this thing longer than you've been in the community. Please don't do that again. Your common sense (or lack of) is what makes me so crazy about you. But since I can't literally beat it out of you and I can't continue to be mean to you (it's too poisonous) I'm going to barely speak to you and be cordial when necessary. If you mention a private thought of mine again to anyone and I know about it, we're going to have words.
Apparently you can't ban just one person from reading your LJ unless you go through a whole thing of creating a f-list with them excluded...blah blah blah. I'm not going through all of that crap....yet. I've actually been sitting on this post for over a week. I couldn't decide if I wanted to make it or not. So here is what I have to say...
Even if I make my LJ entries public, they are still all about me and my business and aren't anyone else's. Just because you "can" read them and not be on my f-list doesn't mean you should be and even if you are, most definitely should NOT be repeating them. And if this doesn't drive the point home even better, you should never read someone's journal and then announce in the middle of a public place around people who don't currently know my business what you've derived from what I've written.
Do we understand? If there has been more hostility than usual blowing your way lately it was because of that. You mentioned it, I blew you off and ignored it thinking you would get the hint. So then you got louder and mentioned it again. You only apologized much much later in the night when I actually pulled you off to the side and said not to mention it again.
I don't want to have to shut down and close security around my LJ. I've been running this thing longer than you've been in the community. Please don't do that again. Your common sense (or lack of) is what makes me so crazy about you. But since I can't literally beat it out of you and I can't continue to be mean to you (it's too poisonous) I'm going to barely speak to you and be cordial when necessary. If you mention a private thought of mine again to anyone and I know about it, we're going to have words.
